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Here are Some Do's and Don’ts of Dating

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Dating can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. Whether you’re new to the dating scene or just looking to refine your approach, understanding the basic do's and don’ts can make the process less daunting and more rewarding.


Here’s a guide to help you put your best foot forward while creating meaningful connections.


The Do's

1. Be Yourself

Authenticity is key when it comes to dating. Show the real you—your quirks, humor, and personality. Pretending to be someone else might work temporarily, but real connections happen when both people are genuine.


2. Practice Good Communication

Clear and honest communication is the foundation of any relationship. Listen attentively, express yourself openly, and ask thoughtful questions. Showing interest in your date’s thoughts and feelings builds rapport and trust.


3. Dress the Part

First impressions count and presenting yourself well is part of that. Choose an outfit that makes you feel confident and comfortable while suiting the occasion. You don’t need to overdo it—just be neat, stylish, and reflective of your personality.


4. Be Punctual

Time is valuable and showing up on time signals respect for your date. Running late can leave a bad first impression, so plan accordingly and give yourself ample time to arrive.


5. Plan Thoughtful Dates

Take time to plan a date that goes beyond the generic approach. Consider your date’s preferences—whether it’s trying out a new restaurant, visiting an art gallery, or taking a scenic walk. Thoughtful planning shows you care.


6. Be Open-Minded

You might not feel an instant spark but give people a chance. Sometimes the best connections develop over time. Approach every date with curiosity and an open mind. Who knows? You might be pleasantly surprised.


7. Respect Boundaries

Everyone has different comfort levels—whether it’s physical space, certain topics, or the progression of the relationship. Recognize and respect boundaries to foster mutual trust and comfort.


The Don’ts

1. Don’t Talk Only About Yourself

It’s natural to want to share things about yourself, but remember dating is a two-way street. Avoid dominating the conversation—show equal interest in your date’s life, experiences, and opinions.


2. Don’t Compare to Exes

No one wants to hear about your past relationships on a date. Focus on the present and the person sitting in front of you. Comparisons can make your date feel undervalued or judged.


3. Don’t Be Distracted

Put away your phone. Constantly checking your notifications not only seems rude but also signals disinterest. Show your date they have your full attention.


4. Don’t Force Chemistry

If the conversation doesn’t flow or you don’t feel a connection, don’t try to force it. Chemistry can’t be manufactured—it either exists naturally or it doesn’t, and that’s okay.


5. Don’t Overdo Compliments

While compliments are great, overwhelming your date with constant praise can come across as insincere. Be genuine and thoughtful with your comments.


6. Avoid Controversial Topics Immediately

On a first date, steer clear of heated topics like politics, religion, or money unless you both are comfortable discussing them. These heavy topics can create tension before you’ve established a connection.


7. Don’t Ghost

If you’re not interested after a date, don’t vanish without a word. Be polite and honest—it’s always better to leave things respectfully than to ghost someone and leave them wondering.


Concluding Thoughts

Dating is all about connecting with others while staying true to yourself. Keep these do's and don’ts in mind for thoughtful and enjoyable interactions. Remember, every date teaches you something—whether it works out or not.


Good luck out there and remember to have fun. Who knows—your next date might just be your perfect match.

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